Okay this guy n i r just acquaintances... he askd me out n we went out fr coffee n a movie the next day, he had got a sweet little wind chime as a gift fr me.. and since then he calls every once in 3 days or so... so... whats up with him? does he like me / not? if he did, wudnt he call more often? im confused...
Answer:
.how is this part of health.unless and until you consider this as something that will affect your mental peace or something.
besides that i think he's calling often enough ...probably since he's just met you he doesn't want you to feel too intimidated by him..yea he probably likes you...wait a while and you'll find out..geez.
He might not be calling you too often because either:
a) He's busy
b) Wants to take it slow
c) Thought he was more interested than he is now
d) Doesnt want to look desperate
e) Wants you to make some moves
f) He doesnt like talking on the phone.
If he asks you out again, its a good sign.
However, rather than driving yourself crazy with 'why'... just go with the flow.
He's not calling you constantly because he has a life outside of you. You might want to take a look at yourself, are you too needy? It sounds like it. The majority of guys don't like petty, needy, whiny girls. Be mature. You're not in the 7th grade.
Yes, he likes you. The fact that he asked you out indicates he likes you enough to overcome fear of rejection - a big hurdle. The fact that he continues to call at this rate indicates continued, if not heightened interest.
Keep in mind that guys generally like to talk less than women. It has to do with how the male and female human brains are specialized for different tasks. I've found "Why men don't listen and women can't read maps" by Allan and Barbara Pease a great resource in understanding these differences between genders.
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